Anyway, the Christmas decorations have gone (except for the poinsettia – it’s a nice healthy little plant and it would be churlish to throw it out just because Christmas is over) so, according to one superstition, we should not have incurred any bad luck. Another one says that if you don’t take the decorations down by the 6th of January you must keep them up until the following Christmas to avoid misfortune. (Some people seem to do this with the fancy light displays outside their houses, simply not switching them on again until the next year.) Mind you, the other day I read that these superstitions/traditions were all created in Victorian times, along with the Christmas tree itself or so I have been given to understand. The idea was to encourage people to return to work by emphasising that the holiday period was over and done with. That sounds typically Scrooge-like! Before this period, people used to keep the decorations up until spring to add some colour to the grey winter months.
When we were children, the decorations used to stay up until my brother and I had had our birthdays later in January. The tree disappeared – too dried up and messy – and the cards came down - to make way for birthday cards – but garlands and such stayed up. Then when we had our birthday parties the house was still decorated. Of course, in those days you had parties for a small group of friends in your home. Eight children seemed a lot. Nowadays, by contrast, it seems that you have to invite almost the whole class to parties and they take place in specialised venues with entertainers and much noisy excitement. Our middle grandchild is going to two parties in the next week or so. One of these is a horse-riding party. So that won’t be the whole class. The other is also number- (and gender-) restricted. It is a “pamper party”, taking place in a beauty salon, or at least that’s what she tells me. Why do ten and eleven year old girls need a “pamper party”? Shouldn’t they be running around playing musical chairs and other such games rather than having their nails painted? I’m going to have to start ranting about girls being pushed into stereotyped roles if this continues.



Last summer I read a Spanish novel (the title and author currently escape me – I need to find my little “books I have read” notebook) in which one of the characters talks about having seen wolves or, at any rate, ONE wolf scavenging in dustbins in the outskirts of Madrid. Okay, I thought, urban wolves. We have urban foxes in the UK so why not urban wolves in Spain? My Spanish friends pooh-poohed the idea. There are no wolves anywhere near Madrid, they maintained.

A new era begins!
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