Monday, 4 August 2025

Stormy weather. Organising the family. Educational stuff. And starving people.

 I didn’t run this morning as I could hear torrential rain on the roof. Apparently Storm Floris is attacking Wales and the North West of England.



Later, when the rain had eased somewhat, reduced to a fine but steady rate, I walked into the village to post a parcel. On the way back the torrential stuff started again. My raincoat mostly kept me dry but the lower legs of my trousers were nicely drenched and I had to change when I got home. 


In the family chat group we have been expressing our relief that we did not have this weather in Cumbria. Six of us in a small cabin with the rain hammering down is never an inviting prospect!


I have spent some time this morning trying to coordinate family visits this month. My Spanish sister wants to come and stay for a few days, as does my son and his family. As he and his family already have a lot of commitments for the month of August we will probably end up with everyone visiting at the same time. Arrangements are complicated by my daughter and family taking a week to go abroad mid-August. Then there is the matter of children going back to school early in September. Life was less complicated when the children were younger.


On the subject of education, here’s a link to an article about teaching speaking skills in our education system. Everything seems geared to more easily measurable skills and speaking and discussion seem to have been sidelined. I think back to my secondary school where we learnt formal debating skills in English lessons as well as the art of making speeches. The school had a house system, well before J. K. Rowling pulled Gryffindor and the others out of the hat. I think our headmistress wanted our girls’ grammar school to be like famous boys’ schools. Our houses were all named after royal forests! We had a yearly debating competition and a public speaking competition, winning trophies for our houses. Such things seem to have disappeared from our secondary schools now. 


Here’s a cartoon about education, which made me smile wryly:



I haven’t been following the Tour de France Femmes in any systematic way, possibly because I haven’t found the same kind of daily summary that the TV provides for the men’s race. But here’s a link to a series of photos of all the cycling ladies.


In various news items I have come across, there has been a certain amount of fuss about the emaciated state of hostages still held by Hamas. Apparently videos have been released, possibly in an attempt tp speed up negotiations and return them to their families. But surely it is not surprising that those hostages are emaciated. They are suffering the same restrictions as all the people of Gaza as regards food. Its time for a solution.


Life goes on. Stay safe and well, everyone!

Sunday, 3 August 2025

Gardening. Cycling in the family. Jellyfish. Anthony Hopkins’ humour. Gender stereotyping. And some serious Israel stuff.

 We were tidying up the garden yesterday when Grandson Number One turned up unexpectedly on his bike. I hesitate to say we were gardening as that would imply some serious planning and weeding and planting. The across-the-road neighbours do that sort of gardening, always putting in some new variety of small flowering plants and keeping the place looking bright and colourful. What we do is keep the rough grass in the side garden quite short, pull up the most egregious weedy stuff from the front garden - the dried out remains of the aquilegia that flowers so nicely earlier in the year and the pampas-type tall grass that spreads like wildfire - and cut back the rose briars. So at the moment it’s mostly green with a flowering bush in the middle and a few orange and yellow poppies here and there.


Anyway, we were busy doing that when a cyclist stopped by the gate. Once he took off his sunglasses and cycle helmet we realised it was Grandson Number One who has just spent rather a lot of money on a smart new bike. He’s very proud of it and is rediscovering the love of cycling that he had when he was a small boy. So we stopped what were doing, convinced him that it was not a good idea to leave his beautiful bike by the front gate and went into the back garden for a rest and a snack. He seemed to have ridden halfway round the town! That’s what you can do when you’re 20! 


All this prompted Phil to get his bike out of the shed so that they could compare bikes and swop ideas and hints on bike maintenance. A bit of grandfather - grandson bonding! 


This morning I ran round the village in the drizzle. I had heard it raining earlier and was reluctant to go out in it but eventually it turned from proper rain to drizzle and I decided I should brave the August damp.by early afternoon the day had brightened considerably. It’s also reasonably warm, hardly a baking hot August day but quite acceptable.


I read that there have been unusual numbers of jellyfish in the UK’s seas this summer so far. It seems they follow currents of warm water, and sea surface temperatures have gone up with global warming, creating favourable conditions for jellyfish. Another consequence of climate change. Mind you, I remember regularly finding jellyfish washed up on the beach at Ainsdale and Southport as a child. I suppose the Gulf Stream Drift had something to do with it. 



I wrote yesterday about the Skims face wrap. Today I came across this little item: 


“While Skims’ new face wrap may scream “useless gimmick that promotes unhealthy beauty ideals”, it has already sold out and generated one unusual celebrity endorsement. In an Instagram video posted on Thursday Anthony Hopkins sported one of the Skims masks and jokingly slipped back into his Silence of the Lambs character, “the late, great, Hannibal Lecter”, who wore a similar chinstrap in the film to curb his cannibalism. “Hello Kim, I’m already feeling 10 years younger,” Hopkins says. In a caption he added: “Don’t be afraid to come over for dinner.”


And here’s a bit down-under gender stereotyping:


Australian lawmaker says women like hairdressing and men like maths

Liberal National party MP Terry Young has spoken out against a push for gender quotas by saying that men and women are drawn to different careers. Men like maths and physical exertion, according to Young, while women like styling hair and caring for others. “[I]t’s 2025,” the infrastructure minister, Catherine King, said in response. Your gender never means a job is off limits.”


In more serious sections of the news I found this:

 

“Nearly nine out of 10 Israeli military investigations into allegations of war crimes or abuses by its soldiers since the start of the war in Gaza have been closed without finding fault or left without resolution, according to a conflict monitor.

Unresolved investigations include the killing of at least 112 Palestinais queuing for flour of in Gaza City in February 2024, Action on Armed Violence (AOAV) said, and an airstrike that killed 45 in an inferno at a tented camp in Rafah in May 2024.


Also unresolved is an inquiry into the killing of 31 Palestinians going to pick up food at a distribution point in Rafah on 1 June.”


Did anyone really expect a different outcome? It’s a bit like asking students to mark their own homework! 


Life goes on. Stay safe and well, everyone!

Saturday, 2 August 2025

Helping to catch drug smugglers! The madness (and unfairness) of the modern world! Starving children!

 Over the last few years we have watched a ridiculous number of TV series about drug smuggling, mostly set in Galicia, where they have had lots of problems with drugs smuggled into the many rías - one of the disadvantages of having a coastline made up of fjords! This morning I read an article about people being urged to to help catch gangs bringing drugs on “mother ships” to the UK coast. 


Just as in the various fictional programmes we have watched (although some have been loosely based on real events) the gangs use asdos -“at-sea-drop-offs - where packages of drugs are released into the ocean from “mother ships” and collected by smaller boats which take them into small coves and harbours. Like the Galician coast, the Cornish coast in particular has lots of little inlets which small boats can access. And a long history of pirates, Life imitates art - if you can call such TV series “art”.


Apparently there is also growing concern the gangs may begin to use more sophisticated techniques such as deploying underwater drones (aka narco submarines) to evade Border Force cutters. 


We didn’t see any exciting police boat chases in our recent trip to St Bees in Cumbria! 


We’re quite cool and cloudy here today. Perhaps our heatwave is really over ... for the time being. However, according to this article, Nordic countries have also been having unusual and unprecedented hot weather, in some cases the hottest since 1961 - 30+° near the Arctic Circle is not right! Apparently warm water currents from the northern countries has contributed to the heatwave in Europe! It’s the interconnectedness of everything!


I continue to marvel at the silliness of some aspects of modern western society. One of the latest I have heard about is an app provided by wedding planners which allows you to offset some of the cost of your fancy wedding by selling invitations to complete strangers for €150 a pop! 

 

Here’s an example:

“Jennifer, 48, and her husband, Paulo, 50, who met on a dating app during the pandemic and have an 18-month-old son, will marry later this month at a country manor an hour east of Paris. Theirs is the first wedding to have paying guests. Their friends and family will number 80 adults and 15 children, some travelling from England, Germany and Portugal. But alongside those loved ones, there will be five paying strangers who have bought tickets.”


So that’s €750 off the total cost of their wedding. “It’s not only about the money, which is a drop on a hot stone in terms of the overall wedding cost,” said Jennifer, “although it will help a bit in terms of the cost of things like decoration and the dress. It’s also because we thought it could be fun and we’re extrovert and open to sharing things.”


So it seems that the thing to do when you are thinking of getting married is to go to a “wedding fair”, possibly paying an entry fee, link up with a “wedding planner”, again paying a fee for the arrangements and for the special app, spend huge amounts on a dress and so on and then book a fancy venue, preferably in France or Italy, usually quite a long way from home, where you can be married in the garden - watched by your friends and family and selected strangers whose profiles you have vetted! 


It’s all got a little out of hand!


Then there’s something I read about in a fashion and beauty article: something called a “sculpt face wrap”. It’s made by a company called Skims, an American shapewear and clothing brand co-founded by Kim Kardashian, Emma Grede and Jens Grede. Skims is described as having a focus on body positivity and inclusivity across the brand and practices inclusive sizing. So what is the “sculpt face wrap”?


“The sculpt face wrap might look, at a glance, like something you would be given by an A&E doctor after standing too close to the chip pan, but it’s actually “jaw support” that you wear, like a retainer, overnight to hold back the terrible, glacial progression of jowls. According to the company, this item is not merely a piece of stretchy material you might have fashioned yourself out of an old pair of tights, but rather a “signature sculpting fabric” made of “collagen yarn”, which for £52 a pop and already selling like hotcakes is definitely a real thing that exists.”


Wow! Skims, by the way was valued at over $4 billion in July 2023. 


While some people are paying huge amounts of money for fripperies, in some cases, such as weddings, taking out loans and mortgages to do so, we still have people unable to pay their bills, and needing to go to food banks in order to feed their children. It’s a topsy-turvy world!


And in Gaza children are dying of starvation. France has recently done an air-drop of aid. Good for them but ai have read that air-drops the selves have caused problems. Some land in the sea and people have drowned trying to get them. People have been injured by pallets of aid falling on them from the sky. And an air-drop is considerably more expensive and less effective than driving a fleet of lorries into Gaza!


The world is mad!


Life goes on. Stay safe and well, everyone!

Friday, 1 August 2025

Catching up with the news. Storms here and there. Escapism of one kind or another.

 I’ve been rather out of touch with news over the last few days because of our very ropey wifi connection while we were off on our road trip to Cumbria. Nothing of great significance seems to have changed in the meantime.


I read that US special envoy Steve Witcoff and the US Ambassador to Israel Mike Huckabee arrived in Israel for a visit yesterday as part of a renewed effort to mediate a ceasefire between Israel and Hamas. They took a trip to Gaza to look at aid distribution sites. Here’s a post from Mr Huckabee on X:


“This morning I joined SEPeace Missions Steve Witkoff for a visit to Gaza to learn the truth about GHF aid sites. We received briefings from IDF and spoke to folks on the ground. GHF delivers more than one million meals a day, an incredible feat!”


Well, I suppose that if you learn the “truth” about the aid sites from the IDF you might well be impressed. It must be a bit like being impressed by the grades earned by someone who marks his own homework.


On the other hand there is the information in this article about the famine in Gaza.


Steve Witcoff, by the way, is a former real estate lawyer with no foreign policy or humanitarian background. Does knowledge of real estate law qualify a person for the post of special envoy? Or is the whole of the Israel/Palestine problem really just a huge real estate question? 


According to Nancy Lindisfarne and Jonathan Neale, AnneBonnyPirate, writing in Jewish Voice for Labour, the powers that be are letting the destruction of Gaza happen as a way of letting us know that they are in control on everything. Here’s a link to their article on that matter.


They also claim that no real effort is being made to stop climate change, for the same reasons. And still we see reports of flood in China, warnings of floods in New York City and in New Jersey. Climate change doesn’t just affect other countries. 


We are all at risk. 


And now Storm Floris is forecast to bring unseasonably strong winds to the UK on Monday, the Met Office has said. The strongest winds are expected during the afternoon and night across Scotland, with gusts of up to 85mph possible on exposed coasts and hills. Throughout Monday and into the early hours of Tuesday we can expect heavy rain, and probably some transport disruption. 


Storm Floris is the sixth named storm of the 2024-25 naming season, which runs from early September to late August, andStorm Éowyn in January was the most recent. Named storms are more frequent in late autumn and winter – but are “not uncommon” for summer, the Met Office said. Presumably we always had storms in my childhood - I just don’t remember them being named!


Anyway, I’m rather glad we went on our mini holiday this week rather than next.


Travelling around with the family, I have been subjected to a lot of KPop music. KPop is apparently the latest thing. Certainly our smallest grandchildren seem to know the words of all the songs. Come to that Granddaughters Number One and Number Two, who are old enough to have progressed to other music and other films also appear very familiar with it. Maybe watching such anime on Netflix is a way of escaping the misery of the world.



And here’s a photo of the women cycling through Bourg en Bresse in the Tour de France Femmes - just because photos os cyclists are always good. 




Life goes on. Stay safe and well, everyone!

Thursday, 31 July 2025

Back home again. Last few days in Cumbria

Throughout our family mini-break in Cumbria the wifi at the holiday site was temperamental to say the least. Yesterday afternoon, however, by some miracle it decided to cooperate and allow me to post my blog, albeit with fewer photos than I would have liked. It just seemed to take an age to download photos. So it goes. 


Once we had recovered from the exertions of our morning hill walk, 



the small people, my daughter and I went to examine the state of the beach and how high the tide might be. Very high was the answer. Only the pebble section was accessible but the small people made friends with other small people by a rock pool. After some time Granddaughters Number One and Number Two joined us and spent some time hunting for interesting stone and bits of sea glass. Granddaughter Number One collected quite an impressive display.



We went to St Bees for dinner at a rather fine hostelry and on our return did a bit of packing before heading back to the beach. On the previous two evenings my daughter, the small people and I had gone down to,the beach and dabbled our feet in the Irish Sea. The small people were determined yesterday evening to get into the water properly in their swim suits. 


On the precious two evenings it had still been quite warm and we had had a rather splendid sunset display. 



As the tide went out the sunset was reflected in the “lagoons” it left behind.



Yesterday evening, however, was dull and rather cold. We watched to lifeboat men bringing the lifeboat in to shore. I think they had only been doing a training mission, not a real rescue. They had considerable difficulty loading the boat onto the trailer which was driven into the sea towed by some kind of amphibious tractor.  The sea kept tossing the boat past the trailer. 




They managed it eventually. Most impressive! 



The tide was still on its way out and there were some lagoons which provided the small people with a place to splash about. They are considerably braver than I am about getting into cold water.


Today we set off for home, taking a look at the priory in St Bees before getting properly underway.




Then we had a light lunch in Whitehaven and eventually got properly underway. On this return journey the satnav took us on a picturesque route through a host of lakeland places, giving us ideas for places to return to for further adventures.

 

Life goes on. Stay safe and well, everyone!

Wednesday, 30 July 2025

Yesterday’s post, just a bit late!

This should have been posted yesterday but my rubbish internet connection here in St Bees wouldn’t cooperate. We began with a walk to the rather expensive bakery on the site of our holiday caravan and cabin park in St Bees. We progressed from there to the children’s playground. 







While Granddaughters One, Two and Four went back to the cabin, my daughter, Grandson Number Two and I went down to the beach to explore rock pools and channels of the incoming tide. My daughter and I even took our shoes and socks off and dabbled our feet in the end of the sea. We spent quite some time seeking interesting shells and bits of crab claws and fancy seaweed. As the tide came in we had to roll our trousers up as the shallow channel we had crossed earlier came up to our knees.


In the afternoon we went to explore Whitehaven, a rather pleasing town with a fair number of expensive boats in the marina.


Perhaps most impressive was the church of St Nicholas and its fine gardens, with the remains of a larger religious establishment that stood once on the site.





There were memorials to the men, women and children who died in the coal mines of the place.



Then we had fish and chips on the harbour, being careful not to feed the seagulls.


On the whole a good day.


Life goes on. Stay safe and well everyone.